February 12, 2026

Their first Valentine’s Day celebration was 80 years ago

 

                    The year 1946 was historic for Marjorie Vines and Dink NeSmith. Some of their memorable milestones were:

§  Post-World War II romantic reunion

§  Married on Feb. 3

§  Wedding dance: Bing Crosby’s “I Truly Love You”

§  First Valentine’s Day celebration together

§  Dec. 2, an early Christmas present

            There are so many stories that “live” within our family, long after the deaths of our parents. Since Valentine’s Day is near, I’ll pick this one. And the best place to start is at the beginning.

            Side by side, the two families lived in Putney, south of Albany in southwest Georgia. Between them, there were nine children and one radio. No one complained about the lack of television, video games, computers or the internet. None of the children imagined such modern-day possibilities any more than a man walking on the moon.


            That’s why the blended band of Great Depression Era children were in the yard and up a tree playing. The limbs were shaking with laughter until the youngest girl dropped her doll. When its porcelain face shattered on the hard Dougherty dirt, the curly-headed 6-year-old started to boo-hoo.

            Scrambling down, eight kids were pelted with drops of tears. All of the playmates vanished except one. An 8-year-old boy helped his grieving neighbor to the ground. Patting her shoulder, he said, “Please don’t cry. One day, I will get you a baby doll even prettier than this one.”

            Before long, the train whistle blew, calling the boy’s father to another railroad job on the other side of the state. Seven years slipped by. The little girl’s father decided to take a trip to see their old neighbors, who then lived in Jesup. With his wife and children—packed into their Packard—they were surprised to see an older but familiar face greeting them on the Cherry Street curb. The carhop was startled to see them, too.

            When the white-jacketed teenager attached the refreshment tray to the car, he noticed the curly-headed girl wasn’t little anymore. Nor was she crying. She was a beautiful young woman with sparkling blue eyes. And she was smiling.

            The chance encounter made an impression.

            Another five years rolled by, and a handsome Army private appeared in Panama City, Florida, where his old Putney neighbors owned a beachside motel. Before he left for the South Pacific, he had to say what he had been thinking to the girl who once dropped her doll. He looked into her azure eyes and said, “I love you.”

            The private was the first to correspond from the Philippines, asking, “Why don’t you write to a lonely soldier?” A handwritten romance flowed back and forth. By the end of World War II, love letters filled shoe boxes in her parents’ home on Ichauway Plantation, where Howell and Essie Vines operated the country store for Robert W. Woodruff, president of the Coca-Cola Company.

            As 1945 drew to a close, the young woman was washing dishes and looking out the window when she saw someone kicking up Baker County dust in the lane leading to the store. Closer and closer he came, until she could see it was a soldier.

            By the time the corporal got to the edge of the front porch, Margie sailed into Dink’s eager arms. And that’s where she remained for 52 years. (Feb. 3 would have been their 80th anniversary.)

            On Dec. 2, 1946—23 days before Christmas—there was a knock outside Room 321 in Ritch-Leaphart Hospital on Cherry Street. The door swung open. The visitor was holding a bundle in his arms.

            “Margie,” Dink said, “do you remember the time when you dropped your doll and cried? And do you remember I promised you that one day I would get you an even prettier baby doll? Well, here she is—our daughter, Sandy.”






dnesmith@cninewspapers.com